Communication skills and openness inspire confidence
Cold and, as they say, mysterious women seem to attract, but mostly to gambling men. As soon as the excitement passes, interest in her disappears. The more you hope to discover some peculiarity, a highlight, the greater the disappointment.
Think about who you would rather communicate with, a young man who cannot say even a few words, relying on his appearance, or someone who is able to carry on a conversation, talks about himself, asks questions about you, and so on?
Intimacy arises only in the “give and take” process, when people are connected by some personal information, common events and the ability to trust.
In 1997, Professor Aron Arthur conducted an interesting experiment. He divided the students into opposite-sex pairs. Their task was to answer 36 fairly personal questions sincerely.
Aron believed that being involved in someone else's life brings people closer together. Talking about yourself allows you to see each other as true as you are. And he turned out to be right. Almost all the participants in the experiment fell in love, most of them even went to the registry office soon.
If the first thing we pay attention to is appearance, then in closer communication, the decisive factor is the ability to maintain an interesting dialogue, which creates a desire to meet again.
Principle #7: Personal Development
Men really like it when women constantly develop. When they make a career, improve their skills or learn something new and useful for their lives. When it's interesting to talk to her! (read more about this in the article “How to make a man fall in love with you. What to talk about with a man on a date”
)
This is an extremely important rule in order to always please men!
But, unfortunately, it happens that a woman, having given birth to a child, forgets about her personal development and becomes an ordinary domestic chicken (sounds rude, but in the eyes of a man it looks exactly like that). She sits at home, babysits Lala, and watches stupid TV series.
When a woman is not interested in anything, does not do anything, her intellect begins to slowly fade. As you understand, nothing beautiful comes out of her mouth in conversation either.
In one interview, Renata Litvinova admitted how at one time she read and read only tabloid detective stories... So then “dirt crawled up her throat”!
Yes, yes, this is exactly how it happens: stop developing, stop being interested in something smart - and some nonsense immediately begins to fly out of your mouth.
Yes, after giving birth to a baby, it is very difficult to devote time to yourself in the first year. I know this from myself. But still, girls, try not to forget about your beloved self. If you truly value yourself, you will take seriously what comes into your brain and what comes out of your mouth - bewitching sounds that can give your man an intellectual orgasm, or the most varied dirt...
A man is an indicator in a woman’s life. If he has faded, stopped listening to you, smiling and caring about you, it means that you have stopped LOVE, appreciate and respect YOURSELF.
This is such a simple, and at the same time incredibly complex formula for love.
Well, for inspiration, I’m inserting the success story of Tatyana, who LEARNED how to make men fall in love with her!
Success stories
Most are put off by inaccessibility
Almost all people are afraid of rejection. Think for yourself, who, in their right mind, would enjoy being “sent”? The one who pretends that he doesn’t care is either lying, or the person who rejected him was not particularly important.
For example, pick-up artists, those who learn to seduce the opposite sex. They rely on quantity, not quality, which is why every failure only encourages them to invent new methods that they are sure to fall for.
But if you think about it, none of those who agreed to go on a date with them and so on were able to touch feelings. If only because it is impossible, pick-up artists are, in fact, people who are not capable of intimacy, they are afraid of it due to various traumatic events from the past, which led to the idea that feeling is painful and bad.
So, not every man is able to take a risk and meet a lady who shows with all her appearance how unapproachable she is. There are very few such brave, challenging people. And then, you already understand who makes up their number.
But really worthwhile guys who are ready to build healthy and happy relationships can pass by. No one wants to feel rejected or devalued once again.
Fear of loneliness is “read”
This means when a woman doesn’t care who is next to her, just not to be alone. When, out of fear of being alone, she is ready to run into any relationship.
And you don't have to talk about it. Sometimes the person himself does not understand that he is trying to “escape” from the fear of loneliness. This is read subconsciously by others. They can't explain why, but they try to stay away.
They remain basically the same, dependent on relationships.
Therefore, those who know how to live a rich life, be happy even without having a chosen one, are valued. Who have interests and life plans, hobbies.
The ability to listen and hear is a great bonus in relationships
When we are understood and heard, there is a desire to open up and open up even more, right?
And if you are only able to speak without attaching importance to the words of your interlocutor, do not rely on mutual feelings. Establishing trust is not easy, but it is quite possible. And if you manage to do this, consider that you have a chance to become happy as a couple.
So, where there is trust, there is respect. Accordingly, you will become closer and more valuable to each other.
You can take a listening skill test to determine whether you really know how to do it.
A sense of humor and similar interests allow you to become closer
Although you can close your eyes even to radical differences in hobbies if you can have a good laugh with her. Life is quite a difficult thing, which is why the most valuable moments are those when you can allow yourself to relax and have fun. Indeed, ease and ease are sometimes worth a lot.
It is clear that jokes alone cannot win over the person you like. But if you have a good sense of humor, this will be an excellent bonus to other advantages.
And mutual banter with each other will strengthen the alliance, being a kind of “bridge” that, quite possibly, will help maintain contact more than once in the future.
Positive thinking is encouraging, but negative thinking is scary
Due to past experiences that were not successful enough, many girls stop trusting the stronger sex. They consider them identical in their plans, scoundrels, “goats” and so on.
It’s quite difficult to “break through” to something like this by proving the opposite, or at least that there are differences between everyone.
Therefore, if you do not have a positive mindset, if you are not open to new experiences, if you do not believe that you have a wonderful future ahead of you, do not be surprised that you are shunned. Mostly those who get pleasure from it want to deal with victims and unfortunates.
And if there were just such chosen ones in your past, it’s time to change your attitudes and preferences. If you want to bring new experiences into your life, healthier and stronger relationships.
Principle #3: Attention
For a man, a warm and attentive female gaze is a very expensive thing. And this can be achieved by completing the first two points.
But it is also important to be able to give competent compliments. And you can give a great compliment without opening your mouth. It’s quite simple to listen carefully to a man and look at him with interest or admiration. These things are worth a lot. But, unfortunately, many girls neglect them. But in vain...
Learn to LISTEN to a man carefully. Learn to ask him open questions (you can also read how to do this in the book “The Magic of Communication”
). And then you will be able to charm anyone: both a random person you meet and your director.
Learn to be interested in men, learn to find something attractive in them. And when you find it, say to yourself: “Oh, I like this!”
Rejoice, feel pleasant emotions, and then look at the man.
And rest assured, he will drown in your beautiful gaze.
This is the strongest technique that can conquer anyone. And all the Goddesses of Charm successfully use it. Use it too!
And if you want to learn other techniques and tactics to make a man fall in love with you, watch my video “Let him fall in love with you”
Naturalness attracts and conquers
Both in behavior and appearance. Bright makeup or clothes that look provocative attract attention, but most often from narcissists, for whom appearance is the only important criterion when choosing a life partner.
The fact that a girl is afraid to appear without makeup or heels with a short skirt indicates low self-esteem. That she doesn’t accept herself as she is, doesn’t love or respect her.
Learn to emphasize your beauty and strengths, but do it unobtrusively, sticking them out and not weighing down your image. War paint is not relevant in all situations. Men value femininity and the ability to present themselves more. They pay attention to gait, smooth movements, posture.
What do you think you will like more: a light, free, confident step in low-heeled shoes, or a shaky, stumbling step, but in beautiful stiletto heels?
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Tuesday, October 06, 2015 15:43 + in the quote book 11 habits of women with whom men fall in love Surely you asked yourself the question - why do some women fall in love with others? Why is there a line of men behind some, while others are not looked at at all? And it's not just about appearance. What are these habits and inner qualities of the woman with whom they fall in love: 1. Women with whom they fall in love more often than others smile and simply glow from within with positive energy. This energy is also called aura or charisma. Yes, such women radiate from within with love, warmth and kindness. Many women who complain about the lack of attention from men do not notice or even think about how they look on the street, with what facial expression they walk with. Here in Russia, for some reason, most passers-by walk with gloomy, problematic, stony faces. If you have never paid attention, then conduct this experiment - during the day, watch passers-by, especially women, what kind of faces do they wear? What kind of face do you wear? What are you broadcasting? Maybe the whole problem is that men are afraid to approach you because of your gloomy face? 2. Women who fall in love have high self-esteem, they love themselves and broadcast this to others. The people around us, in this case we are talking about men, subconsciously read this and begin to conquer such women. Such women are respected and their opinions are taken into account. This is one of the obligatory factors - they love only those women who love themselves, and take advantage of others. And here you should not confuse self-love with selfishness. Self-love is when you respect your boundaries and teach others to respect your boundaries. This is when you are so filled with love that you want to share it with others. This is when you know how to say “no”, taking into account your interests and when you help if you see that your help is needed. When you give yourself and others the right to make mistakes and consider mistakes as points for growth. When you stop communicating with a man if you see that he is clearly not obligatory and not punctual. And you cannot tolerate disrespectful treatment of yourself. Without expressing it, but simply turning such people out of your life. Selfishness is a constant desire and need to drag everything only to one’s own side, never taking into account the interests of others. Such a woman is only capable of taking, never giving anything in return. Such a woman herself is unhappy and so are others around her. She manipulates and believes that everyone owes her. 3. Women who fall in love are very feminine. They have a high emotional rating, so they react gently, without aggression, in any situation. Their voice is beautiful, they “sound” delicious. Record yourself throughout the day on a voice recorder and listen to how you sound? How do you react and respond to topics and people that are unpleasant to you? Such women have a soft look, a sweet smile, and a feminine gait. The man is strong, he fights all day, gets a mammoth, so he rests next to a feminine woman. He doesn't need another warrior at home. 4. Women they fall in love with are wise. They know how to guide a man without lecturing or telling him what to do, they know how to get what they want and do it the way that the initiative originally came from the man. Such women have perfectly mastered the art of “how to be a neck” for a man. A wise woman remains silent where necessary, allowing the man to make a mistake and pretending that she did not notice the failure. 5. Women who fall in love with do not try to look smarter than a man, even if she has three higher education degrees and defended her dissertation. Next to her, a man feels strong, confident and smart. 6. Women who fall in love know how to properly inspire men, thereby increasing their testosterone. For the sake of such women, a man wants to perform feats. Next to such women, men become even more successful. 7. Women who fall in love know how to have fun. And not just in bed. Such a woman has an interesting life even without a man; she, as a rule, has some hobby, or several, from which she gets pleasure. Such a woman knows how to enjoy life, from shopping, from walks in nature, from a bubble bath, from communicating with friends, from communicating with men and, of course, from sex. The woman one falls in love with is definitely sexy and sensual, she loves sex. 8. Women who fall in love take care of their appearance and figure. They don't eat at night, go to the gym, or go for long walks or runs. Their hair is always in order, their makeup is in place. They are always beautifully dressed and well-groomed. Manicure and pedicure - no questions asked. Men, however, especially at first, love with their eyes. And I like one phrase from the Internet - no one will initially fall in love with your inner world. Therefore, excellent appearance is a must! There is no need to look like a doll - with war paint. It is important to be beautifully dressed, clean, well-groomed and smell good. 9. Women who fall in love with do not complain about problems, do not gossip, and do not experience depression. They may have a bad mood or PMS, but, as a rule, they do not take it out on others. They calmly warn others or ask for help. They don't throw tantrums. 10. Women with whom they fall in love know how to be mysterious, they know how to sometimes make a man nervous, create a feeling of loss, thereby pushing the man to be like her again. They know how to disappear unnoticed and make a man nervous and look for her. Such a woman periodically stimulates her man, thereby arousing the hunter's instinct in him. But only sometimes, not often. 11. Women who fall in love know how to gratefully accept gifts and compliments from men. They are sincerely happy and grateful. Many men want to give even more to such women in order to see a joyful reaction and happiness in the woman’s eyes. Such women know how to ask and are not afraid to voice what they don’t like. I noticed that most Russian women do not know how to respond correctly to compliments and gifts. You've probably noticed how a woman, in response to a compliment “what a beautiful dress you have,” embarrassedly says something like: “nothing special, I bought it on sale, cheap,” instead of smiling and sincerely thanking the person who made compliment. Or how they react to gifts - at best, they will take the gift with a sour or insipid face and if they say thank you, then good. And it happens that she says, she tells the man that there was no need to spend money on a gift. This is absolutely brutal. And then she complains why he stopped giving her gifts and compliments. Yes, because with such a reaction, you yourself discourage any desire to do something for you. That's it, my dears! If you want people to fall in love with you, work on yourself. After all, one is not born a woman, one becomes one, as Simone de Beauvoir once said. And also, I want to recommend you one small video course that I want to give you. It's called "Female Magnetism. How to increase your attractiveness? There is very useful and unique information that many women do not know about. Get free access to the course HERE https://natashakorinets.ru/online/magnetizm-2/ With love, Natasha Korinets.
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Intelligence is important
Just not one that immediately crushes all interlocutors with its power. Excessive intelligence is repulsive, as it gives rise to the feeling that the person is arrogant and pompous. And to make it interesting to communicate.
So that she can support almost any topic. And when necessary, remain silent. But there is one condition - intelligence should not significantly exceed that of a man.
This affects self-esteem and sense of self. Well, what guy would want to deliberately feel superior to his fair half not in beauty, but in intelligence?
Silly girls actually charm, but only in moments when we are talking about completely unfeminine things. For example, car repair. Then he has a chance to show his masculinity and strength, his ability to protect and take care, to solve almost any problem.
The best thing is to maintain balance. So that, on the one hand, your partner is proud of you, and on the other, in more masculine matters, he is touched.
The ideal woman - what is she like?
The concept of “ideal woman” often appears in men’s conversations. What kind of ideal woman is she through the eyes of the stronger sex? Which women do men love first?
The answer is simple:
- beautiful;
- Thoughtful;
- smart;
- sexy;
- feminine;
- confident;
- stylish;
- positive;
- with a sense of humor;
- cheerful;
- tender.
Most women have all these qualities. What then is the secret and difficulty of finding that ideal one? And the fact that it is important to be able to harmoniously combine all the listed qualities and not overdo it with any of them. For example, such a quality as confidence. Here we are not talking about narcissism and increased self-esteem. But more about the fact that a woman really evaluates herself, her abilities, values this and broadcasts it to the world.
