“To be a woman is a great step, to drive you crazy is heroism” - the immortal lines of Boris Pasternak’s poem express everything that has been said and written about a woman and her purpose for centuries. Being a Woman - a real one, with a capital W - is not given to everyone from birth. This is a science that you should study throughout your life. And appearance plays not the first role here. After all, it often happens that men go crazy not for a written beauty, but for an inconspicuous, at first glance, modest woman. Because there is something about her that makes representatives of the stronger half of humanity immediately understand: she is a Woman.
How to become like this? How to make a man catch every glance and gesture? Not easy, but possible! The main thing is patience and following some rules.
How to become the one and only for a man
In the age of the Internet, it is not difficult to find an object for dating. And so the man doesn’t go to the steam room with the men, but hurries to go on a date with the woman. It is important how the first meeting goes and whether it turns into a full-fledged date.
A popular proverb says: “You are greeted by your clothes, but you are seen off by your mind.” No matter what contemporaries say, but it works, the first impression depends on it, and whether further relationships will be built.
Important! Psychologists call this the “first impression effect.” Its duration is only a few minutes. In the first seven seconds, a quick superficial perception of a new person occurs; in subsequent minutes it is consolidated.
A man by nature is a male, a hunter and a conqueror. He himself chooses the object he likes for courtship and future relationships. This is one of the tasks facing a woman - to become an object of courtship. Depending on the goal that the lady pursues when attracting a man, she should look charming and behave appropriately at the first meeting.
Attention! Clothing should be appropriate for the time of day and meeting place. If the date takes place in a cafe, then the outfit can be without any special frills. For a restaurant, evening dress is preferred.
To seduce and drive a man crazy, a woman's clothing should:
- emphasize the advantages of the figure (tight clothes) and hide flaws (loose-fitting clothes);
- have mandatory cuts that, when moving, will expose areas of the body or reveal underwear (stockings, bra);
- stand out with colors that attract attention: red or black.
The lingerie that a man will see must have lace - it looks exciting.
By the way! The main task solved with the help of clothing is the creation of a sexual image that should be fixed in the mind of a man.
When choosing a hairstyle, girls can be guided by the following:
- hair length is selected according to the shape of the face and the size of the ears;
- Hair color can be in harmony with skin and eye color.
In any case, the hair should be styled and have a healthy shine. Chemically burned blue hair with split ends is unlikely to impress a man.
Makeup is the “war color” of a woman’s face, applied in such a way as to match the time of day and to highlight the shape of the face. The color of lipstick and eye shadow should not be chosen too bright - this adds vulgarity to the lady’s appearance.
It is advisable to remove excess hair from exposed areas of the body (neck, arms and legs) using hair removal. Nails can be either long or short. Whether they are painted or not does not matter, the main thing is that they are clean and well-groomed.
Girls should pay special attention to the smell of perfume. It should not be sharp and strong - this is more of a hindrance than an attraction. The subtle and persistent feminine scent will drive any man crazy, even without the use of special perfumes with pheromones.
The perfume industry adds various pheromones to its products to create “special” odors. However, it has been proven that a person produces his own pheromone. In women it is called copulin. Having no obvious odor, copulin has an exciting effect on the subconscious of a man through the olfactory organs.
Advice. Women should remember that the natural smell of a clean female body, supported by good perfume, is especially attractive to men.
"YOU'RE TOO SENSITIVE"
Manipulators produce emotions in other people - yes, that's exactly what they do! Having showered you with a waterfall of praise and flattery, they soon stop paying attention to you to see how you react to it. And when you react, they will accuse you of being overly sensitive or demanding. They will insult, belittle, and criticize you (usually as a joke, teasing), pushing your personal boundaries until you become outraged.
Then they will turn the reaction they provoked against you to make you look crazy. Manipulators can make a person defenseless and insecure - for this they only need time.
Rules of conduct for a loving woman
How to interest a man by correspondence and is it possible to drive him crazy?
A woman meeting the man she likes for the first time will not lose if she behaves modestly enough. When talking with your partner, you shouldn’t really shine with your intelligence, even if he says obvious nonsense. The task at this stage is to win the heart and capture the mind of a man. A loving woman behaves with her chosen one in such a way that he understands the following:
- it’s good and calm with him;
- he inspires admiration, love and devotion;
- female gestures are aimed at hugging, stroking or clinging to him, thereby proving love;
- his woman will do whatever he wants.
Important! When talking to the man you love, it is advisable to use a low timbre of your voice. This emphasizes the intimacy of the relationship, has a stimulating effect on the subconscious and supports male desires in it.
When talking with your loved one, be sure to use such addresses as:
- My love;
- my hero;
- my knight, etc.
This will give him confidence in his abilities and make him want to care, protect and feel indispensable. In this case, the woman will be the one and only for him.
Carefully! All words and intonations must be sincere. The slightest falsehood in the voice will ruin not only the present moment, but also give reason to think about the truthfulness of all relationships.
Meeting with a man
Visual: loves with his eyes
When communicating, men of this type maintain a noticeable distance so that there is more opportunity to see the interlocutor from different angles and correctly evaluate her.
The most important thing for a visual artist is a beautiful picture, no matter what it concerns. This man is easy to communicate with as he is talkative, intelligent and intelligent. But you shouldn’t impose yourself on him if you don’t have confidence in your appearance.
How to drive a man crazy from a distance
It happens that a guy, having met a girl on a dating site or social network, falls madly in love with her. How did she do it? A smart seductress is guided by the following rules:
- Only by showing sincere interest in your correspondence interlocutor can you rekindle interest in yourself;
- You should send your real photo only after spiritual and psychological contact has been established (first you need to stimulate the main erotic zone - the brain);
- distance is a good reason to limit the time and frequency of communication: it is necessary to choose a mode so that the interlocutor looks forward to the communication session;
- delay until the last moment of the real date, but keep your partner in excitement mode.
How to make a man fall in love with you - the psychology of relationships, is it possible to win a guy?
SMS, as a means of communication, should not go in parallel with Internet communication - this dilutes men’s tension in the desire to achieve a meeting.
Correspondence that has gone far into intimate fantasies implies the emergence of sexual relations at the first or subsequent real meeting. Correspondence can be considered a psychological prelude to sex.
Attention! Experienced ladies, knowing how to drive married men crazy at a distance, never use SMS communication and other instant messengers. The main thing is to hide the fact of communication from his wife, thereby allowing the partner to feel safe.
Wives tend to check their husbands' phones for such correspondence. Therefore, if a lady is going to seduce and drive a married guy crazy, then it is best to choose communication on the website or via email.
Phone and SMS
Auditory: loves with ears
This psychotype of a man perceives information through the organs of hearing. This type is characterized by communication not face to face, but in a relaxed position, half-turned, because the picture is not important to him, the main thing is the sounds.
Male auditory learners have a beautiful voice, speak smoothly, without rushing, correctly placing the necessary speech accents. His house must have modern acoustic equipment and a large music collection.
Why caresses are needed in bed
How to motivate a man correctly
There is a misconception that in sexual play only the man provides affection to his partner. To drive your husband crazy in bed, you need to take the initiative. Caresses in bed are a prelude to sex, allowing both partners to achieve such excitement that their physical fusion will bring mutual pleasure. By caressing each other, lovers not only achieve orgasm, but also simply enjoy.
Foreplay - the beginning of pleasure
What kind of girls do visuals like?
Appearance, beautiful hairstyle, eye-catching clothes, accessories - everything should be beautiful not only in him, but also in his partner. A girl’s inner world may be a mystery to him, but her appearance must be unambiguously attractive, corresponding to his ideas about female beauty.
Visual people - men like girls in whom everything is beautiful - from the tips of their hair to the tips of their toenails. They will appreciate not only a stylish haircut, perfect makeup, beautiful manicure, and fashionable clothes, but also the harmony of the partner’s entire body - a well-groomed figure, beautiful skin, radiant eyes, plump lips, slender legs.
How to turn a man on in bed with words
During lovemaking in bed, it is simply necessary to whisper all sorts of “tasty” words into your lover’s ear. You need to tell him that he:
- "tiger" or "lion";
- "the best";
- "gentle, sweet, beloved."
Be sure to emphasize that: “Never before has it been so good and pleasant, he is above all praise.”
For your information! Wet lips and hot breath near the ear, combined with sincere praise to your partner, will make his arousal more intense.
Verbal attentions
"I HATE DRAMA"
And yet, you'll soon find out that they have more drama around them than anyone you know. Manipulators first put you above everyone else , extolling your remarkably easy-going character. But it won't last long because they get bored with everything. They are pathological liars, serial cheaters, and perpetual victims. And soon all these qualities begin to surface and lead you into terrible confusion.
Whenever you mention your concerns or grievances, manipulators will claim that this is the kind of drama they hate to make you feel bad for reacting to their ugly behavior. But they don’t want to change their behavior.
How to drive a man crazy with your behavior in bed
Love games are an exciting process, and not a single millimeter of the beloved’s body should be left unattended. For each such game, it is necessary to determine the erogenous zones of a man, the method and strength of the impact.
Important! At first, you can and should talk during sex. Don’t be shy to ask what’s better and more pleasant. Only by trial and error can you learn ways to achieve pleasure.
What areas to pay attention to
Bed tactics should be aimed at caressing the erogenous zones. This may require not only gentle touching of the erogenous point, but also rough contact of the entire body weight with the man's pubis. This will cause a rush of blood to his love organ. You can drive a man crazy with one touch to his erogenous point with a “hot kiss.” To do this, they put hot tea or coffee on the bedside table and after a couple of sips they kiss the man. Kissing the male genital organ brings special results.
Erogenous zones of a man
Experience comes to those who act. You can drive any man crazy in bed: married or single. The main thing is that he is loved. Only then will all thoughts and actions be sincere and give the desired result.
Kinesthetic: loves with body
These men love close contact with their partner. The closer their bodies are, the better. Touching, stroking, hugging, snuggling, smelling, tasting, kissing - that’s what they love. This psychotype of men is the most sensual.
“Touch and movement are their methods of understanding the world and women.”
The longer the girl remains an unknown universe for him, an unsolved mystery, the longer he will strive to communicate with her in order to achieve the closest possible contact.
