Loud statement? We agree. But the topic that we will consider is very high-profile - how to achieve success in your personal life with the help of visualizations, meditations and other psychological and esoteric practices.
Recently, the world has literally gone crazy with various ways to improve oneself and the world around with the help of spiritual practices. Let's look at this topic using the example of one of the most popular YouTube channels on the topic of relationships: “how to attract a man into your life”, “how to make a man think about you”, “how to make him call”, etc. – these and other topics are easily googled on the most popular video hosting site on the Internet.
How to attract a man to you: my story
So, let's take our minds back many years. Here is how it was…
I was working in an office then, and I really liked one guy. He was tall, curly-haired, with large gray-blue eyes and a charming smile. He dressed stylishly, held a good position and drove a late-model BMW. In a word - he was great! Just the kind of boy that many girls like.
I walked around looking at him and racking my brain: how can I attract his attention? No, it's not that he didn't react to me at all. I noticed that sometimes he glanced in my direction, but he never approached me.
For a long time I could not understand why this guy behaves this way. But soon everything became clear...
Obstacle on the way
A little later, I found him on Instagram and immediately understood what was going on: he had a girlfriend.
Of course, I guessed about this. After all, it’s obvious: if a guy doesn’t get closer after you met or even spent the evening together, then most likely there is some good reason for this. Most often, this reason is the presence of a girlfriend.
At first glance, it may seem that this is a sentence that will not allow you to attract the right man into your life.
In fact, everything is not so scary. Another girl is not the end! After all, if a guy, being in a couple, stares at others, it means that not everything is good and smooth in his relationship, which means that sooner or later it will stop.
The same thing applies to married people. I don't encourage them to attract, no. But sometimes it happens that a man is not happy in his marriage. And if he himself is drawn to you, shows interest, but does not dare to take active actions, you can help him take this step. There is nothing wrong! You will save two people who were unhappy together and now have a chance to be happy separately.
Small mistake
So, I found out that he was not free, but my interest did not disappear because of this - I still liked the guy. And I continued to think about how to attract this man to me.
At the same time, he continued to periodically glance at me, but did not try to start communication. We had nothing. And I really wanted to attract him! I dreamed of organizing something with him, “stirring up” as they say.
But at that time I did not have any big, global goal in relation to this man. I didn’t think about dating him for a long time, building a serious relationship or marrying him. Apparently, due to the fact that I didn’t really communicate with him and didn’t understand what kind of person he was, all this was not in my plans.
I had only one goal - to start communicating with him and, perhaps, establish a closer relationship. Very close. Well, do you understand what I mean, girls?
Now I realize that this was my mistake, which may have slowed down the fulfillment of my desire. I'll tell you what it is.
There is an opinion that you can’t immediately make grandiose plans for any guy you like. “He just said hello to me!” said, and in my mind I already got married and gave birth to three children from him,” many joke.
But personally I don’t agree with this. On the contrary, I believe that this is exactly what is correct. Why? I'll explain.
When you don’t have any specific goal in relation to a man, when you don’t have any great desire for the future, you don’t know what to do and where to move next, and the Universe doesn’t understand what you want from it, and cannot give you anything specific that will satisfy you.
Therefore, the first thing I recommend you do immediately after choosing a guy is to decide on your plans and intentions towards him. And after that, you can ask the question “How to attract a man with the power of thought?” This way the process of realizing your intention will go much faster.
Let's get back to my story. Then I didn’t think about this important nuance, but simply immediately decided to use the power of thought. However, as always. So what did I do? I used an old, well-known and very effective technique.
Manifestation of the internal in the external
Every external result in reality has internal, spiritual reasons. This is the basic law by which the law of attraction functions. In other words, the reality in which a person lives is the result of all his previous thoughts, experiences, emotions, and beliefs. This phenomenon is well described by a quote from the writer J. Allen: “Circumstances do not create personality - they contribute to its manifestation.”
Every aspect of life, from financial well-being to health, all allows us to reflect a person’s thoughts and beliefs. Most people, as a rule, are convinced of the opposite - that their thoughts and experiences are shaped by surrounding circumstances. However, adherents of the theory of the power of thought argue that in reality it is the mentality of these people that creates these very circumstances. By accepting this truth, a person receives a precious opportunity to create his reality the way he wants to see it. Creating positive life circumstances is an internal, spiritual work.
How to attract a man with the power of thought
I applied the practice of seduction by the power of thought. This method works very well, because when a man chooses a woman, he, as a rule, first of all pays attention to the level of desire that awakens in him in relation to her. And only after this the guy begins to notice his feelings for the girl and his emotions next to her. But what is primary is sexual interest.
Knowing this, I decided to attract the right man with the power of thought. Today I will tell you what exactly I did for this, and most importantly, I will give you a step-by-step plan for seducing a guy. You will understand why some women attract men, and you can become one of them.
Attracting a Guy : Signs of the Universe
Looking ahead, I will say that as soon as I completed this practice only three times, various interesting things began to happen around me. Within a week or two, I began to notice just wild synchronicities! Do you know what this is? If not, then be sure to read my article about these magical signs from the Universe.
There are different synchronicities. As for my story, they manifested themselves in the fact that my boyfriend and I began to constantly intersect and come face to face.
The fact is that, although we were colleagues, I worked on the 11th floor, and he worked on the 12th, we did not have any special overlap in terms of service. In addition, our work schedules did not coincide, and we could meet, at most, in the corridor or elevator. In a word, we saw each other very rarely, even if I really wanted to.
And then one day, after I had completed another practice of seducing with the power of thought, I suddenly noticed that we began to meet with this guy every day, and even several times - near the elevator, in the corridor, in the dining room. Regularly. Every day. It was simply unreal! At some point, we, constantly colliding, began to laugh at this.
How else might synchronicities manifest themselves in your life? How to recognize the amazing signs that the Universe gives you in the process of fulfilling your desire, when you are trying to attract the right man?
For example, the name of the guy you are interested in may begin to catch your eye again and again. Or you will start hearing about him a lot and often - literally from everywhere. Another sure sign is couples in love “chasing” you at every corner, films and TV series about love that you start to stumble upon every now and then.
Even your friend can tell you that she started dating someone. And this will also be a signal that you are closer than ever to a relationship with the desired man.
In other words, when a desire is about to come true, a lot of positive synchronicities arise around you, even if you don’t notice all of them. If something negative happens in your life, then this is a clear sign that you are doing something wrong or going in the wrong direction.
Remember: as soon as you focus your attention on the negative, you immediately begin to attract it to yourself. Therefore, be especially careful when you think about how to attract a man with the power of thought.
What to write to a man so that he thinks only about me: examples of phrases
You should not call a man, especially if he is at work. Love SMS can also have a positive impact on the development of your relationship. This is a great way to remind yourself.
It ’s better to avoid using diminutive words and call by name:
- If a loved one is preparing for some important event, phrases like: “I believe in you”, “I wish you good luck - you will be the best!”, “You are my hero!” would be appropriate.
- Words of gratitude after a joint event: “Thank you for pampering me,” “It was unforgettable,” “Thank you for the evening.”
- During a serious relationship, you can write bolder SMS: “You are the best!”, “Thank you for existing!”, “Sweet dreams for you, my love!”, “I miss you, I want you!”.
How to attract the right man: I did it!
What happened next was even more interesting. The synchronicities did not deceive me: the result was not long in coming, and I was convinced that the practice of seduction works.
Time passed, and now - New Year's corporate party! During the holiday, he finally came up to meet me. I was happy! We spent the whole evening together. I found out that he had recently broken up with his girlfriend, because of whom he had not approached me before.
After this “New Year’s” acquaintance, we established closer communication. We met several more times and had nice conversations. In principle, if I wanted, I could start building further relationships with him, but...
I realized that this is not my person at all! Not mine at all. I don't want to be with him. This is how it happens.
But the main thing in this story is that I managed to find out for sure how to attract the man I like, and that this is quite possible. In my case, it was this magical technique that worked - seduction by the power of thought. And right now I’ll tell you about it!
If you understand that the person you have attracted is exactly the one you have always dreamed of, but for some reason the relationship is not working out, use the advice from the book “The Only Effective Strategy for Restoring True Love Relationships” >>>
Example two
The scheme works somewhat differently when you have known the person for a long time. Perhaps you have been friends for a long time or have known him since school - the important thing is that you know enough information about him. Here, energy costs will be minimal, since there is no need to waste energy on recreating the image. You can easily imagine it, it will be very good if the plot is based on when the person created by your thoughts will be in a place known to you. Then, it will be easier for you to direct him to the phone and ask for a call.
As an example, you can come up with a situation where the object is at work. Something reminded him of you, and he decided to call. He will simply feel an irresistible desire to do it - and you will fulfill your desire.
Seduction with the power of thought: a step-by-step plan
So, I’ll explain the essence of the technique. Read carefully what you need to do and remember it.
First:
you need to decide on a specific man who is interesting to you and whom you want to attract. It is advisable not to make my mistakes (read above) and find out more about him, understand what you want from a relationship with this man in the future, and formulate a clear intention.
Second:
when the guy is chosen, start meditation - enter a very relaxed state, at the alpha level. You can find out how to achieve this in this video. Personally, I just sat in a chair, turned on pleasant music, closed my eyes and relaxed, plunging into a state of light half-asleep.
Third:
for 10-15 minutes, imagine the man you want next to you and mentally seduce him. It's best to imagine it in the same place every time. For example, I imagined a guy I liked in my apartment: this made me feel comfortable and I could clearly visualize all the interior details. I imagined that he was at my house and that I was touching him. He really likes it: the guy looks at me with loving eyes, passionately wanting.
For the practice to work 100% and for you to be able to attract a guy, it is important to be as relaxed as possible during the process and imagine the desired man and his seduction in as much detail as possible. It is important to mentally see his body, feel his reaction, smell him. Even if you are not yet familiar with its smell, imagine it. Try to see and feel how madly he wants you, how much he needs you. All this works very well!
I partially talk about the practice of seduction with the power of thought and how to attract a man to you in the video How to make a man fall in love with you with the power of thought. And you can find out all the most important details and nuances of its use in a course on restoring relationships, the students of which have more than once been convinced of the effectiveness of this technique for returning and attracting men.
Work for results
“How soon can you expect results after starting regular practices of seduction by the power of thought?” - many are interested.
There is not and cannot be one exact answer. I can’t tell you “Do it ten times and everything will work out!”, because we are talking about special things and subtle matters. Therefore, I recommend repeating this practice, like all similar ones, until you achieve the desired result.
The deadlines can be very different. What does this depend on?
Firstly, you don’t perform the practices equally effectively every day. For example, today you visualized somehow not fully: maybe you didn’t relax enough, maybe you didn’t concentrate well, maybe you didn’t feel emotions enough. Such visualization will not work to its full potential. And tomorrow, on the contrary, you will complete everything so well that further practice will no longer be needed.
Secondly, do not forget that your thoughts have quite a lot of power. If you are maximally concentrated on one of them, then it will be implemented very quickly. With proper and long enough focus of attention, the materialization process can take only 1-3 days.
If you visualize your boyfriend, experiencing positive emotions, for just a few minutes a day, and the rest of the time you lament how bad everything is in your personal life, how lonely and unhappy you are, then it’s easy to guess where your focus is attention.
When thinking about how to attract the man you like, always remember: what you focus on is what you will attract into your life. Everything depends on you!
The main thing is imagination!
You may find this technique difficult to learn. But it’s definitely worth a try, even if you are only superficially familiar with it.
This method is ideal for attracting a guy at the initial stage. You don’t need to become smarter or more beautiful, you don’t need to bother yourself about why some women attract men easily and others don’t, rack your brains about what they have that you lack. You don't need to take any first steps. What you need to do is just relax, turn on your imagination and enjoy yourself. And the guy is yours.
Even if you don’t know each other yet, the man will feel a burning desire to get to know each other, and he will come up to you and start a conversation. And if he didn’t pay any attention to you before, you will notice with what interest he will begin to look at you now, and in the end he will definitely make attempts to get to know you and attract you.
You can use this technique whenever you like a particular guy. It works without any physical actions towards the man: you don’t have to approach him, you don’t have to get to know him, you don’t have to call him or invite him anywhere, you don’t have to write to him.
On the contrary, under no circumstances take any first steps on the physical level! Just watch how it will work at the level of thought power.
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Personal magnetism
The portrait of a successful person consists of the following qualities: sociability, openness, popularity, charisma. These concepts are united by a common term – personality magnetism. The person seems to attract attention to himself without doing anything for it.
Anyone can learn this if they want. And along with these qualities, success will come into your life and your wildest dreams will come true. All you need is to say goodbye to negative thoughts and create positive energy around you.
How to develop personal magnetism?
- Find harmony within yourself. As long as you are eternally dissatisfied with yourself and your life, no one needs you. By creating negative thoughts (I'm a failure, I'm not capable of anything) you will only attract failed individuals. Accept your shortcomings and forgive the mistakes of the past, learn to live in harmony with yourself.
- Conquer your fears. Anxiety and self-doubt give rise to complexes that prevent you from moving forward. People who are afraid of mistakes and failures do not achieve anything in life, marking time in one place. Only life experience and experienced fears make us stronger and wiser.
- Train your mind. Limited perception is the main mistake of an unsuccessful person. He does not know how to consider a situation from all angles and make the right decision. Therefore, read books, watch, analyze and draw conclusions that will help you move through life in the right direction.
In addition to internal qualities, the outer shell is also important. People are drawn to beautiful, neat and clean individuals. The appearance should reflect the internal state, in harmony with the type of figure and shades of skin and hair.
Dream man: attract or keep?
But, girls, I’ll tell you right away: don’t think that this technique alone can make a man fall in love with you for life. This is wrong.
This practice, the so-called sexual meditation, very well helps to attract a man, but only at the first stage. After all, we all understand that relationships between a man and a woman begin with physical attraction.
Yes, attracting a guy at the very beginning of a relationship is not difficult. What's next? How to attract a man to you for a long time?
And then it is important to maintain in him the desire to stay next to you forever. This requires a whole set of “procedures,” including upgrading yourself and your self-esteem, self-love and self-acceptance. This is exactly what we learn at the “I’m Alone” marathon. But that's a completely different story...
Have you ever wondered why some women attract men like a magnet? Do you know how to attract a man to you? Have you ever had any successful attempts to attract a guy with the power of your thoughts? Share your experience in the comments.
