Law of Attraction
Materialization of desires is an inevitable process. If you really want something and constantly think about it, then it will certainly come into your life. The only question is that you should wish for it carefully. Constantly worrying about something can lead to what you most feared. Hence the expression: “Be careful what you wish for.”
But you should look at everything in a positive way, if you constantly think about the good, with positive energy, then the desired “good” will definitely come true.
2nd cycle (7-14 years)
After seven years, a child stops concentrating only on himself, and he has many questions about the world around him. He tires his parents with a bunch of different questions, he has strange activities. The child becomes a philosopher or scientist who wants to find out how everything works in this world.
He can break a toy to understand how it works, or kill an insect to find out what's inside. The child is interested in other children, but only of his own gender.
Signs of spiritual transformation
The effect of the law of attraction can only be observed if you strictly adhere to the rules for making your desires come true. This plan for materializing what you want must be clearly constructed. The Universe, in turn, sends us hints about the correctness of actions, as if encouraging us to follow the chosen path.
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Information doubling growth rate:
- 1750s - first doubling of all information
- 1900s - second doubling
- 1950s - third doubling
- Information began to double every 10 years
- 1970s - doubling every 5 years
- 2000 – doubling every 2 years
- from 2008 to 2012 the volume of information increased 5 times
- from 2010 to 2021, the volume of information has increased another 50 times!
- There is an exponential growth in the volume of information in all spheres of life!
On a note
In the period from 1998 to 2003 alone, more information was created than in the entire previous history of mankind! By 2000, the volume of human knowledge had increased approximately 250 thousand times !
End of relationship
People in everyday life maintain relationships with other people, constantly communicating with them at work, at home and in friendly settings. But, also among a huge circle of people, there are acquaintances or friends, and maybe even a “significant other”, who drag us into a routine and, with their reluctance to change, hinder the fulfillment of your desires.
You should be prepared for the fact that the internal changes taking place in you will lead to changes in your train of thought and will somewhat affect your way of life. Such changes will ultimately lead to the loss of unnecessary people. This is inevitable and even necessary.
Transformations of the inner self can cause conflicts or painful separations. You need to accept them as they are. Having experienced an unpleasant breakup with a partner or having lost a friend, you make room for those people who wish you well and will make your life more harmonious in the future.
How to change your life
Flow, movement, growth, change - these are the four great principles of life.
Terry Southern
Greetings, my dear readers!
Today we will talk to you about a very important and interesting topic, about how to change your life. To be honest, I am incredibly glad for your attention to this issue, because a person who wants to change his life is a real living person with innovative thinking, optimism, courage and willpower, with whom it is very pleasant to communicate and work. Such a person strives for the best, for the sake of interest and development, and does not hold on to the old out of fear of the new. I’m like that myself - I don’t like to hold on to the old until the last moment, I don’t like conservatism and I can’t stand the fear of everything new, so by force of will I suppress this fear in myself and boldly look forward into an unknown, but damn interesting future. I like everything new, I love change and even more I love being the initiator of these changes, which is what I am going to teach you in this article, because if life changes anyway, then let it do so thanks to, and not against, our desire. So in this article, friends, you and I will definitely find a common language. So, to understand how to change your life, you need to ask yourself why we should change it at all? That is, why exactly do we need to initiate changes in our lives? Here we must understand the following: regardless of our desire, our life will still change - for the worse or for the better, to a greater or lesser extent, depending on the circumstances. The only question is whether we will control these changes as much as possible, or whether we will be forced to adapt to them, experiencing stress due to the fear associated with these unwanted and often unexpected changes. So, your friends’ life, in any case, is constantly changing, it’s just that most often these changes go unnoticed by you, since they happen gradually. And sometimes they shock people with their unexpectedness, as well as their unusualness and novelty, and people do not always manage to properly adapt to them, at least right away, because they are not prepared for them. Therefore, you and I need to change our lives, also so that someone else does not change it for us. We ourselves must manage our life so that it suits us, so we need to think about changing it constantly, even when we don’t want to change anything. There is no need to be afraid of what is natural and inevitable for this world. And the world is constantly changing, for it change is a natural process and inevitable, so you need to treat it completely calmly. And then, as I wrote above, changing your life and changing yourself along with it is interesting!
Friends, pay attention to how many people, on the one hand, want stability, calm, certainty, comfort and confidence in the future, and on the other, they want change, novelty, something unusual and interesting, they want some surprises, preferably pleasant ones, and in some cases even not very pleasant, but exciting. How is this possible, how can you want mutually exclusive things? And it’s very simple, it’s only from the point of view of linear logic that stability and change are mutually exclusive, but if you look at these things more broadly, if you think not logically, but in parallel, allowing for the simultaneous existence of both of these processes, then we will see that it’s all about control and a person’s management of changes in his life and what they lead to, and not in a person’s desire or unwillingness to have them in his life. Basically, of course, we need pleasant, positive changes, and, if possible, controllable by us, then we will be glad that our life is changing - for the better. No one will give up the best, even at the expense of the good, if he knows for sure that the best is actually better. Plus, a lifestyle based on constant change is quite interesting in itself, it allows a person to experience a lot of unusual sensations that we all strive for, so even in cases where everything is good and calm, people are drawn to change something. We were born in order to change this world, this need is embedded in our genes, and that’s what draws us to this. And if you also accustom a person to constant changes, then he will strive for them and will be happy about them, despite any, even the most negative, consequences of these changes. But at the same time, for some reason we are still drawn to some kind of stability and certainty. I wonder why?
And the whole point is that you and I were taught to be afraid of change, we were taught that we need to live a familiar, measured life, in which everything is clear and understandable, and for many years there are practically no significant changes that would force us adapt to new conditions, learn something new, change yourself in accordance with the new demands that life makes. Therefore, most people live in a psychological swamp, which drives them into a state of hibernation, making their life so monotonous that they do almost all their daily activities automatically. Agree, there is no need to remain vigilant when in your life, day after day, everything goes according to your usual scenario, when you don’t even really need to think about what and why you need to do today, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow. Home-work, home-work - this chain of repeating events in a person’s life is familiar to many, and it is only diluted with various kinds of social rituals [holidays, various traditional events, weddings, funerals, and so on], but in general, it is just like that - for many years. I even know people whose life follows the following chain: home-work-work-work-home. And the point is not even that they work a lot, very hard, but that they don’t like their work, it’s not interesting to them, and it doesn’t develop them at all. The question is, how can one live such a life? Only while in hibernation, nothing else. The healthy mind of a healthy person simply cannot stand such a life, he will go crazy. Why live like this, friends, why turn yourself into a zombie and live a life that is unnatural for a normal person? After all, such a life is, let’s say, meaningless. People can live like this for a hundred, two hundred, or a thousand years, and will not even notice how time flies, because the gray and monotonous days in their lives will be layered on top of each other and add up to years and decades of monotonous, monotonous, often gray and an absolutely meaningless life, the purpose of which is to maintain itself unchanged. But why? Why is such a life needed? That is the question. Is it really just to live? Do you think that there is no alternative to such a life, do you think you will not survive if you live differently? How can you survive!
Thus, friends, the most important thing you need to do to change your life is to give up stability, calmness, certainty, predictability and, in general, the automatism of your life, because all these are unnatural and unnecessary things for you that make the state of your life unnatural. mind. You need to give up all these stupid habits that you cultivate and cherish as part of yourself. The key word here is “refuse.” You need a renunciation - a renunciation of everything that has long been tightly integrated into your life, but that it is time and that you can change! Without refusal there will be no change - you need to let go of the old from your hands in order to take in the new, because you won’t be able to hold both in your hands at the same time. Don't be afraid of loss, don't be afraid of unpredictability, don't be afraid of the unknown - believe in your ability to take more of what you now have and what you can give up. And feel free to give up the old for the new - this is the only way you will change your life.
How can you give up stability, calm, certainty, automaticity of actions, habits if they have a stranglehold on you? After all, this is not so easy to do - it is difficult for a person to refuse something and part with something, for him this is a very painful procedure. To do this, friends, you need to stop living in fear, and as mentioned above, start believing in your abilities! And in order to believe in them, they need to be developed. If you have not developed professionally and personally for years, then of course you will not have any faith in yourself, because this faith will simply have nothing to rely on. You will be afraid of change until you make yourself a strong, independent, self-confident person by working on yourself. And no one is stopping you from doing this work.
So stop being afraid, stop shaking in front of the unknown, in front of changes, in front of everything new, awaken in yourself the human explorer, the human cognition, the human discoverer, the human conqueror, the human hunter, the human fighter and the human creator. No one, hear, no one is stopping you from making yourself like this - work on yourself, develop yourself, improve your professionalism, study new types of activities that are in demand in society, increase your competitiveness, and then no changes will be scary for you. Don’t be, friends, a trembling creature, this role is not for you, since you are reading this article. Become a person, in the fullest sense of the word, who boldly looks forward and is not afraid of anything. Remember - you have nothing to fear! All your fears are illusory. You just believe in them, that's why they scare you. You don't need any stability! You need change. Stability is needed by those who trade it, turning people into their slaves through fear. But you don’t need stability and constancy! Refuse them. And in order to finally get rid of the fear of change and instability, so to speak, to finish it off - you need to be the initiator of changes in your life, you need, as I call it, to strike first, since the best defense is an attack, and in our case we even We don’t defend ourselves - when we ourselves consciously change our lives - we command it. Courageously face your fear and you will overcome it! Throw away everything old and take everything new - your strength and will are your right! When you give up everything, everything old and unnecessary, you will have nothing to lose. And a person who has nothing to lose has nothing to fear! The main thing is that you have yourself - that's all you need in this life.
Just think, dear readers, what it means for a person to give up everything that he is used to, because this also means to wake up, open his eyes to reality and begin to behave in accordance with its current state, in accordance with its characteristics and taking into account your real capabilities and needs. This is a conscious approach to life, this is real life, and not life in a dream, like those who are used to getting used to it. Life must change in order to be life, otherwise you will exist for your period of time and will not even understand why you lived at all. So don’t be afraid - give up everything you’re used to, then you can get a new, even more interesting life! And your abilities, which determine your capabilities, I am sure, will be enough for you to get more and better. But nevertheless, do not forget to develop them. We live in a time when the world is changing faster than people.
The next thing you need to do in order to change your life is to design your future. You need to understand what and why you are going to change in your life, you must decide where you want to go so as not to go blindly. I have noticed many times, including myself, that the more a person dreams and plans, the more desirable for him are various changes in his life, most of which he himself usually initiates. Today it is difficult for us to stay ahead of the times, because the world, as I have already said, is changing incredibly quickly, but nevertheless it is possible. To do this, you need to dream, plan, fantasize, and not try to keep up with other people, copying their lives and themselves. Your dreams and fantasies are the energy that will allow you to get off the ground and start acting if these dreams and fantasies are very bright and beautiful. You see, the more vivid the pictures in your head are, which will be possible options for your wonderful future, the stronger will be your desire to start doing something right now to make these pictures a reality. It is difficult for people with poorly developed imagination to imagine something that does not yet exist, so when something appears, they are not only surprised by it, but also afraid of it. And that is why they perceive any changes in their lives very painfully. But imagination can be developed, this is not a problem, you just need to set such a goal for yourself, and then, yourself or with someone else’s help, begin to realize it. And when you can imagine something new, something that is not yet in your life, but that you would like to see, you will be able to find a way/ways to get there. After all, in order to change your life, you need to at least approximately imagine what it should become after these changes. And she should get better, much better. So don’t limit yourself to your fantasies and desires.
Think right now and imagine - what new do you want to see in your life, and most importantly - what of the old are you willing to give up for this? And then ask yourself another question - what do you need to start doing right now to see it, to create it, to get to it, to get it? For example, would you like to change your place of residence, or perhaps you would like to change your job? Why not? Is the place where you live now the best in the world? Is your job exactly the job you’ve dreamed of all your life? Just don’t say that you are used to all this - because there is nothing worse for a “living”, conscious person than a habit. This is the next and final step you need to take to finally get rid of the fear of change and change your life. Let's see what it is.
There is, friends, one very important rule of life, which goes like this: don’t get used to anything! You especially shouldn’t get used to comfort, because comfort is very harmful for people, it deprives them of the acuity of perception and the ability to think. If you want to live - for real, and not like a plant, not like a machine, not like a biorobot - you need to unlearn getting used to it. It’s difficult, I understand, it’s not for nothing that they say that habit is second nature. And yet, for a person, changing something in this world is as natural as getting used to something. So why not get used to the need to constantly change something? Friends, you need to change your life not in order to necessarily improve it, but for the sake of the changes themselves. You can change your life for the worse, or get nothing from your changes, no one is ever immune from this. Would this mean that these changes were unnecessary and even harmful for you? No, it will not. Changes are needed in any case. And that's why. The fact is that a person has an opportunistic instinct that helps him, when necessary, adapt and adapt to any conditions. This instinct helps us survive. And the more strongly a person develops this instinct, the more viable he will be. And for instinct to develop, it must work, that is, be used. And for it to work, there must be a need for it. And for it to be necessary, you need to change your life as often as possible, even if the appropriateness of these changes is questionable. Therefore, even unsuccessful changes in life will benefit you, since they will become a kind of training for your capabilities. Therefore, in order to be guaranteed to change your life, you need to be ready for any changes, for any changes, for any results, both positive and negative. In general, I am convinced that any changes are always for the better, people just do not always realize this, especially in the context of time.
Also, friends, you should always remember that if you have no attachments, then there will be no suffering. Therefore, if you don’t like to suffer, don’t get attached to anything. Change your life more often, strive for something new and better, and there will be more joy and happiness in your life. That's basically all you need to do to change your life. It seems that everything is simple, you will agree. But some effort will have to be made. And I'm sure you will apply them.
In general, changing your life is beneficial and interesting, because when we do this, we, as I wrote above, really live, we feel reality, we feel the process of life itself, we remain vigilant when faced with something new, we think, adapting to new life, and, therefore, we are improving. Therefore, by changing our lives, we change ourselves, and by changing ourselves, we change our lives - the effect replaces the cause, and the cause replaces the effect. Everything is interconnected. And don’t forget, friends, if we ourselves do not strive to change our lives, then it will begin to change itself, which it already does, while forcing us to change. And it’s so unpleasant when your life begins to change without your, so to speak, permission. And this is not so much unpleasant as it is terrible, because, in the end, who is the master of your life - you, or someone else? If someone else is running your life, then you simply don't have it. You do not live, but exist, if you do not manage your life, if you allow other people to manage it. I hope you don’t let this happen and live your life the way you want, because your life is your life!
Dreams
A person who decides to change his life changes first of all his inner world. This is reflected in the structure of sleep, its duration and tranquility. If disturbing images appear in a dream or it becomes difficult to wake up in the morning, this is a signal that the brain is actively restructuring and transforming its perception of reality, accepting a new state of affairs, allowing for a more sensitive perception of energies. As soon as a clear plan of action is built in the mind to achieve the desired goals, sleep will return to normal.
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The plane from Nalchik landed at Moscow's Vnukovo airport strictly on schedule. Pavel picked up the suitcase of his wife Galina, who had flown in from a ten-day vacation at a ski resort in the Elbrus region, and immediately asked: “How did you rest? How was your ride?”
Question and answer Is it worth going on vacation if depression occurs after it?
Galina answered absentmindedly: “I had a good rest! Even very good... Pasha, I have a serious conversation with you.” Immediately upon arriving home, the vacationer informed her husband that she had decided to break up with him...
However, the 40-year-old lady decided to change not only her marital status, but also her occupation, and at the same time her place of residence. The deputy general director for strategic planning of a large metropolitan pharmaceutical company exchanged her managerial position for a modest position as a coach-instructor in alpine skiing and mountain tourism in the Elbrus village of Terskol. During her student years, Galina was actively involved in alpine skiing and mountaineering and even fulfilled the standard of a candidate for master of sports in both sports disciplines.
Life is out of place
You should listen to your feelings, they will always tell you the right choice. If you feel that you are not living your life, then this is a direct signal for change. Cast aside doubts and change your perception of things, look at your life from the viewer's side. What did you change? Change is necessary, otherwise you can forever remain in a vicious circle of dissatisfaction.
Appreciate what you have
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Emotional perception of reality
The last sign of a quick change in life for the better is the most important. It is based on a person’s emotional perception of his environment and analysis of feelings. Under no circumstances should you hide from your emotions; you need to face them and accept them. During the period of coming changes, a person becomes more sensitive and receptive. But this passes as soon as a new phase of a life changed for the better begins.
Never give up and look straight ahead. Change is never easy. But the life you strive for will bring a lot of joy, peace and happiness. Follow the plan you set for yourself, and the Universe will send you the fulfillment of your desires.
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You've given up the victim mentality.
The main sign of victim thinking is the habit of blaming others or circumstances for your problems. “It’s my parents’ fault that I chose an unclaimed profession,” “because of my husband I can’t realize myself,” “I’m forced to stay married for the sake of the child” - if you often have such thoughts, don’t expect significant changes in your life.
But if you are ready to take responsibility for your decisions, are not afraid to make mistakes, and do not blame anyone for your own difficulties, positive changes in life will not keep you waiting. Why? Because you recognize yourself as “the architect of your own happiness” and, when making decisions, first of all, think about your own comfort.
